How the Family Scapegoat Can Crush Narcissists For Good

There's only one pathway out for the scapegoat.

You either do this or you stay codependent to abusers and eventually die tragically. You'll either be taken by suicide or by severe health issues that are a consequence of abuse.

What the mind doesn't integrate and resolve roots itself in the body.

Your mind and memory may deteriorate or you'll develop cancer, cardiovascular issues, illness that don't respond to antibiotics.

Your emotional pain will become physical pain, and no narcissist in the family or that you've trauma bonded to for romance or friendship will be there for you.

Trust me, I've been there. I sat in the ER waiting room with a fever and kidney infection, and I watched my sister walk out and go home after telling me she was going to the bathroom. I called and called my boyfriend only to find out he immediately went to his mistress when he heard I was ill.

I cried so long and loudly that a nurse came and tried to comfort me, offering me her phone to call a loved one.

"It's not that," I sobbed, "It's that no one will answer. They don't love me. I'm going to die alone."

It was then that I realized that my codependency and love for abusive people came at too high of a cost: my health.

Healing was literally life or death.

So, here is how someone who is groomed from birth to be scapegoat who develops Borderline Personality Disorder can crush all the narcissists for good.