The Surefire Way to Get a Narcissist to Want You & See You as Lovable
It's possible...if you're strong enough.
A lot of people say that a narcissist can never love anyone, and they’ll never see supply in their full worth.
But that’s not true: there’s a way to get a narcissist to see you as lovable.
Unfortunately, acting in ways that are lovable are not ways that are going to convince them of your worth. I tried those. Narcissists feel entitled to your supply, and they don’t trust people, because they project their own identity onto them.
You can give a narcissist everything you have — money, sex, adoration, gifts, genuine emotional connection — and they won’t treat you like you’re someone worthy of respect or mutual love.
You can forgive them every transgression, and then they’ll just do it more and more, until you feel thoroughly broken — body, mind, heart, and soul. They won’t see you as lovable or worthy of respect.
The more you forgive them, the more you’ll start to DISGUST them, because they’ll see you have no self respect and will tolerate anything.
You can mirror their toxicity, and they’ll go into regular rages, but they won’t see you as lovable if you act like them, because they don’t see themselves as lovable.
How do you get a person with NPD or ASPD to see you as lovable and not someone they can disrespect?
I’ve done it a few times, and it’s worked every time.
But it’s excruciatingly painful and tragic.